Discovering Giftedness

My son- Hudson- loves to do things that make me laugh. For example, he enjoys finding my shoes and putting them on. He knows it is a quick way to draw a cheap laugh from his old man.

I have been reading a lot lately about the stewardship of abilities. One of my deep desires is to help my son hone in on his God-given talents and to develop those into meaningful strengths.

I can already see patterns emerging at the age of 2. He likes to play by himself rather than with other kids. But on the other hand, he enjoys being the center of attention. He loves to perform for a crowd of people.

When he decides he wants to do something, he becomes obsessive. He will weigh the consequences of punishment and decide that it is worth a reprimand or spanking to go ahead and do the thing he is determined in his mind to do.

I attended a seminar led by Bill Hendricks on "Discovering Your Child's Giftedness." Bill shared some tips on how parents should look for and encourage the development of talents in their children.

Eric Liddell the 1924 Olympic gold medal sprinter told his sister who was urging him to quit track and focus on being a missionary to China. Liddell says, "God made me for a purpose, but he also made me fast. And when I run I feel His pleasure."

Bill Hendricks encourages us to find the blanks for ourselves and our children in the statement: God made me ________. And when I _______ I feel His pleasure. Three practical ideas that Hendricks shared in his talk:

1. Identify your own giftedness.
2. Pay attention to your child's patterns of... energy; activities; behaviors; satisfaction; focus; relationships; roles and circumstances in which they strive.
3. Keep a design journal- write down observations of your child throughout their lives.

Psalms 139:16, "All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be." Ephesians 2:10, "For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works which God prepared in advance for us to do."

The Bible is full of references that we have been fashioned, formed and designed for a specific purpose. Our job as individuals and/or parents is to be stewards of God's workmanship. There are many good resources to help you determine your areas of giftedness. These will also equip you with the knowledge to help others determine their talents.

From a general secular perspective, I found two books helpful:

1. Now, Discover Your Strengths- Buckingham & Clifton
2. The Pathfinder- Nicholas Lore

From a more specific biblical view, I recommend:

1. The Power of Uniqueness- Miller & Hendricks
2. Maximizing Your Effective- Aubrey Malphurs
3. From Success to Significance- Lloyd Reeb

I also must insert a shameless plug for a book I wrote- Stewardship Mandate. I devoted a chapter where I summarized some of my favorite concepts from the above books. Soren Kierkegaard says, "At a man's birth, there comes into being an eternal vocation for him, expressly for him. To be true to himself in regards to this eternal vocation is the highest thing a man can practice."

For the Glory of the Triune God- Father, Son & Spirit,

Ashley Hodge

What Easter Means to Me

This is a day that we celebrate Easter- the resurrection of Christ. This day has taken on new meaning for my family in the last two years. I have a two-year old son who reminds me daily of what a gift new life is.

But as often the case with this life, there is a continual mixture of trials with blessings. As my wife- Amy- was pregnant with our son, she was diagnosed with a neurological disease- CMT- that has caused her muscles below her knees and elbows to slowly waste away. This disease has brought daily challenges to our family and also perspective.

Every day, I struggle to watch my wife deal with neurological pain. I watch her have difficulty walking and doing many of the daily tasks that we often take for granted. We are reminded that this body is in a process of decay- 2 Corinthians 4:16. We have greater empathy for those who cope with physical disabilities.

But we are filled with hope. Easter is the basis for this hope. We believe in the resurrection of the dead. We believe that just as God raised Christ from the dead, He will also raise our bodies from the dead.

We believe that this body will be sown perishable, but raised imperishable; sown in dishonor, but raised in glory; sown in weakness, but raised in power- 1 Corinthians 15:42-43. Thank you God for the resurrection of Christ. The apostle Paul says, "If Christ has not been raised, your faith is futile... if only in this life we have hope in Christ, we are to be pitied more than all men." 1 Corinthians 15:17-19. I agree.

For the Hope and Assurance of Resurrection,

Ashley Hodge

Two Thieves

Today is Good Friday. What could possibly be good about a day that represents the most cruel, painful and unjust death ever suffered? It is good because this day represents an idea so radical that the mind cannot fully comprehend it. God became man to die a death on a cross in order that man could share in the glory of God. Christians celebrate Good Friday because we realize that one of the central doctrines of the Christian faith is justification.

Justification means that a man or woman can become righteous in the eyes of God through the cross of Christ. Not by any good works that we have done. The Bible reveals consistently that "There is no one righteous, not even one; there is no one who understands, no one who seeks God." Romans 3:10-11. Yet a humble man walked this earth in sinless perfection in order to reveal who God is. He died a death for the sins of those who place their faith in Him. The just died for the unjust. "The result of one act of righteousness was justification that brings life to all men. For just as through the disobedience of the one man (Adam) the many were made sinners, so also through the obedience of the one man the many will be made righteous." Romans 5:18-19.

Nowhere is the idea of justification illustrated more powerfully than in two thieves who were crucified with Jesus. Luke's Gospel tells us, "One of the criminals who hung there hurled insults at Him: 'Aren't you the Christ? Save yourself and us!' But the other criminal rebuked him, 'Don't you fear God,' he said, 'since you are under the same sentence? We are punished justly, for we are getting what our deeds deserve. But this man has done nothing wrong.' Then he said, 'Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.' Jesus answered him, 'I tell you the truth, today you will be with me in paradise.'" Luke 23:39-43.

JC Ryle- one of the great writers and preachers in history- wrote a tremendous sermon on these verses. The sermon is titled Christ's Greatest Trophy. The sermon can be read on pages 120-129 of his book Holiness here: http://www.stewardshipmandate.com/Links_Holiness-Ryle.pdf. You owe it your soul to read this sermon.

Two thieves were crucified with Christ on Good Friday. Both thieves represent what our sins deserve- cruel punishment. Yet one thief was justified by Christ and one was not. One thief displayed amazing faith in the King of this universe at a point where the King appeared the most weak. Another thief mocked this King right up to the very end. The repentant thief gives hope to all sinners- myself included- that true repentance is never too late. Ryle says, "One thief was saved that we might never despair, but one thief was condemned that we might never presume."

Today, there are still two types of thieves in this world. The first type of thief persists in disbelief in the promises of God. They believe that Christ was a decent man- as all people do. But they resist calling Him God. They believe that they are deserving of good things and they mock in their heart those who have faith in Christ as narrow-minded and gullible. John LaFarge writes, "For those who believe in God, no explanation is necessary. For those who do not, no explanation is possible." This is one of life's great mysteries, faith is a gift. The same fire that melts wax, hardens clay.

The other type of thief comes to a realization of the hideousness of sin. He/she understands that our sins deserve death. The only option to escape this despair is to repent of this sin and throw ourselves upon the mercy of Christ- where transforming grace is available. He/she responds to this grace by allowing the Spirit of Christ to change a heart and declaring war on sin. They long for the day when the promise of Christ will become a reality: "Today, you will be with me in paradise."

As we reflect on Good Friday, I pray that we reflect on the evil of sin and how it has defaced everything great about this world. I pray that we reflect on the sacrifice of Christ and the penalty that was paid to redeem us from that sin. I pray that we look to the promises of Christ that one day those who have placed faith in Him will experience life in a resurrected earth with a resurrected body.

For His Glory,

Ashley Hodge

Should a Christian own expensive things?

Wouldn't it be easier if there were commandments in the Bible that said?

1. You shall not own a home over $300,000
2. You must drive a car that is less than $25,000
3. You must not take lavish vacations
4. Second homes are forbidden

The Bible is silent on specific lifestyle mandates. However, the Scriptures do have a lot to say about money and possessions. I have been meditating and thinking about one particular passage. 2 Timothy 2:3-4, "Share in suffering as a good soldier of Christ Jesus. No soldier gets entangled in civilian pursuits, since his aim is to please the one who enlisted him."

Possessions are a slippery slope. The people who live modest in our eyes; live lavish compared to over 90% of the world. God has blessed the United States with unbelievable prosperity and resources. Is this bad? Should we feel guilty because we are able to afford some things that add to our comfort and enjoyment in this life? Can Christians own million dollar homes, drive expensive cars, own second homes and take $10,000+ vacations? Is this sinful?

A common argument is that God calls some believers to live among the wealthy. The rich need Christ as much as the poor so the argument goes. Therefore, a Christian needs to live among the wealthy to win the wealthy. I personally don't buy that argument in light of Luke 12, James 5 and I Timothy 6. Those passages along with many others have stern warnings against acquiring possesions. Possessions want to be our master and it will compete vigorously for our affections.

This brings me back to 2 Timothy 2:3-4. I believe that the question every Christian must ask themselves in relationship to possessions is: Does this entangle my life or allow me to serve Christ with greater freedom? A strong argument can be made for buying expensive things. Nice things are often expensive because the quality is greater than cheaper versions. We have all experienced buying something at less cost only to spend more in the long run because it has to be replaced over and over.

The same is true for purchasing a home. There are lots of things to consider: schools, safety, family size, proximity to church, etc... There are no easy answers to these issues. God has taught me in recent years to enjoy nice things. Fine dining, vacations, possessions all come from His hand. These things are all a glimpse of Heaven and the eventual eternal prosperity that awaits those who call Christ Lord.

But these nice things are not to be treasured. They are to be used and shared but never trusted. Do our possessions entangle our lives? If the answer is "yes" what steps should we take to start untangling? As Paul said, "But one thing I do..." (Philippians 3:13). As Christ said, "Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God." (Matthew 5:8). Philosopher Soren Kierkegaard interpreted this as purity of heart is to will one thing. It is to have a life that is free from the love of possessions.

Simple, strategic living allows a greater focus on the things that matter most. I pray that God moves our hearts to consider our entanglements carefully. We are called to serve one King, one Master, one Lord.

For His Glory,

Ashley Hodge